“Building Families, Strengthening Marriages, Drawing people to god and his word, & helping bring an end to the power and influence of pornography in our world.”
Marriage Counseling & Couples Counseling
Whether you are dating, engaged, or already married my passion is helping you build and reclaim the intimacy and emotional connection in your relationship. I offer a Christian-based approach to couples counseling and focus on providing you with the tools needed to communicate more effectively, move beyond unhealthy-negative cycles, heal from breaches of trust, and draw closer together in matters of faith, parenting, decision making, sex and more.
I view couples counseling as a central opportunity for you and your significant other to learn how to join together in establishing a healthy and emotionally connected relationship. It is also a process in which you "prepare" to navigate through your differences, while also learning how to "prevent" unnecessary conflicts and breaches from developing.
If you've been recently engaged, now is the time to begin investing in your soon to be marriage and one of the best ways to do so is through premarital counseling. It is important to know that the time and effort you put into preparing your relationship for marriage today will pay great dividends in the future long after you say "I do." My desire is to see every couple I work with develop the foundations for a healthy marriage, while helping them enjoy each step of that journey.
Premarital counseling sessions involve not only learning needed skill sets, but applying them as well. It is through such practice that important habits are formed, which ultimately carry your relationship forward with a needed health and vibrancy over the long term.
Appointments can be scheduled on a weekly or every-other week basis. You also have the opportunity to schedule longer or shorter appointment times:
- 50 minute
- 90 minute
- Intensives: 3-4 hour blocks of time
*Please note premarital counseling generally consists of 4-8 sessions, and couples have the option of using one of two online assessments: SYMBIS or Prepare-Enrich. A one time fee, of approximately $35, is required for either assessment.
I look forward to helping you schedule for a day and time that best meet your lifestyle needs.
Eric Gomez, MS LMFT MHP
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Fulfilled Christian Counseling
Certifications and Couples Counseling Orientations: Eric Gomez, MS LMFT has received extensive training in providing Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, and has also received a Level 1 Certification in applying use of Gottman couples therapy methods. Eric has also developed a CLEAVE based approach to couples therapy centered on helping premarital and married couples apply use of curiosity, listening, empathy, affirmation, validation, and encouragement in developing greater intimacy in their communication.
Focus Areas: Infidelity, Pornography Use and Addiction, Couples Communication, Parenting, Healing Breaches of Trust, Finances, Marriage Counseling, Premarital Counseling, Pre-engagement Counseling, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Christian Spirituality.
Fulfilled Christian Counseling is honored to serve locations including Anthony, Dona Ana, Hatch, Las Cruces, Mesilla, New Mexico State University, White Sands and the surrounding areas.